Let’s get personal for a moment, shall we? I’d like to tell you a little about my own intimate relationships, and why my philosophy surrounding love is part of what…

October has so far been one of my busiest months in terms of online Domination. Between Niteflirt, my AVN Stars subscription page, and regulating my long-distance subs, there are many…

Mistress Ophira & Stephie Scarlet

Something had been bothering me, the past week– I couldn’t quite put my finger on what, but it was as though I just had an itch I couldn’t scratch. Have you ever…

Pumpkin spice, colourful leaves, and spectral forms wandering the corn fields…there’s no season I love more than autumn. For many subs, October also signals the beginning of 30 days in…

There he is. You’re sitting in the café with a cool drink as he walks in looking to see who and where you might be. Tall, slim older than you…

Want to know one of the hardest things about the pandemic for a perverted social butterfly like myself? It hasn’t been the masks, or missing out on restaurant dining. It…

Punishment is an art, to me. Each one is unique, to the sub I assign it to and to their transgression. I’ve had the occasional individual try to purposely offend…

Your privacy and security are important to me, and I expect all clients to value my privacy and security as well. The fact that we can maintain our privacy, while…

Last evening I taught the first ever installment of my new workshop, Consent and Pleasure: A Philosophy of Life. If you missed it this time, not to worry– I will be…

Some people get so caught up in worshiping Dommes that they forget we’re also human. It’s definitely been a week for me to remember just that, as I slow down…

The Softer Side of Domination One of the many untrue stereotypes when it comes to BDSM is that it’s all about whips and chains…and while I love the feeling of…