Pumpkin spice, colourful leaves, and spectral forms wandering the corn fields…there’s no season I love more than autumn. For many subs, October also signals the beginning of 30 days in…

There he is. You’re sitting in the café with a cool drink as he walks in looking to see who and where you might be. Tall, slim older than you…

Want to know one of the hardest things about the pandemic for a perverted social butterfly like myself? It hasn’t been the masks, or missing out on restaurant dining. It…

Punishment is an art, to me. Each one is unique, to the sub I assign it to and to their transgression. I’ve had the occasional individual try to purposely offend…

Your privacy and security are important to me, and I expect all clients to value my privacy and security as well. The fact that we can maintain our privacy, while…

Last evening I taught the first ever installment of my new workshop, Consent and Pleasure: A Philosophy of Life. If you missed it this time, not to worry– I will be…

Some people get so caught up in worshiping Dommes that they forget we’re also human. It’s definitely been a week for me to remember just that, as I slow down…

The Softer Side of Domination One of the many untrue stereotypes when it comes to BDSM is that it’s all about whips and chains…and while I love the feeling of…

I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again: nothing gets me off like control. In the near-decade I’ve spent as a Toronto Dominatrix, I have found endless ways to…

Ottawa Mini-Tour Announcement: June 29th -July 2nd What sub hasn’t admired Toronto Dominatrix Mistress Ophira from afar and wished they could serve in person? I have good news for some…

Castration fantasy is fascinating and hot for a few different reasons. One of the first that comes to mind, for me, is that it represents one of the most ultimate,…

I’ve had the question posed to me time and time again: what do I look for in a submissive? What is my favourite “type” of sub? The short answer is,…