Your privacy and security are important to me, and I expect all clients to value my privacy and security as well.
The fact that we can maintain our privacy, while sharing an intimate bond, is part of what appeals to many people about hiring a professional Dominatrix. I don’t need to know the details of your private life, meet your friends and family, or know where you work (unless you want to disclose that). It should go without saying that in order to continue doing what I love, I require my personal information to be protected as well. Things like asking for my legal name, what I do as a day job, or any other details of my personal life is always a turnoff, and has led to me refusing to see certain subs who were persistent with these sort of questions.
Most people who have been in any sector of the adult industry have had the bad fortune of running across obsessive clients and stalkers, and it should be a no-brainer that I need to protect myself against anyone who would want to wish me harm or bring stress into my life. For this reason, it doesn’t matter how special our relationship is, or how long we have been seeing each other: my private life remains private, unless I choose to share details.
I have on occasion run across people who recognized me from other parts of my life, such as shared hobbies, interests, or frequenting the same neighborhoods. If this happens, it’s totally fine to say hello if you see me alone, but not to use my Domme name in a vanilla setting or vice versa.
If I recognize you in a vanilla setting, I can assure you that I will not disclose that we know each other beyond a discrete smile, unless we are both alone and you approach first.
While I do require deposits to finalize bookings (which protects me against no-shows and last minute cancellations), I offer options to people who absolutely cannot use e-transfer, such as sending the deposit via Amazon Giftcard or cash drop-off. PayPal is unfortunately not friendly towards those of us in the adult industry, so I cannot currently accept PayPal.
Lastly, I understand that you may feel nervous about seeing a professional Dominatrix, but rest assured that I have zero interest in exposing anyone or violating the privacy of any client. I strongly believe that adults should have the freedom to explore their kinks, and to both buy and sell adult services. These freedoms benefit us both, and I would have nothing to gain from infringing upon yours.