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It’s a time of making resolutions, reflecting on the past 12 months, and celebrating our accomplishments as well as the hurdles we’ve overcome. The start of a new year also …

I recently participated in an awesome video project (stay tuned, link to come) where Dommes answer questions from fans about ball busting. Needless to say, it was a blast! I …

If you follow me on Twitter, perhaps it’s hard to picture me without a pair of sky-high platform heels. I love the look and feel of classic shit-kicking boots, and lacing …

Words like “obsession” and “addiction” may be hot little pieces of hyperbole to throw around when we’re talking about D/s dynamics, but let’s be real: in a healthy Domme/sub relationship, …

Let’s get personal for a moment, shall we? I’d like to tell you a little about my own intimate relationships, and why my philosophy surrounding love is part of what …

October has so far been one of my busiest months in terms of online Domination. Between Niteflirt, my AVN Stars subscription page, and regulating my long-distance subs, there are many …

Mistress Ophira & Stephie Scarlet

Something had been bothering me, the past week– I couldn’t quite put my finger on what, but it was as though I just had an itch I couldn’t scratch. Have you ever …

Pumpkin spice, colourful leaves, and spectral forms wandering the corn fields…there’s no season I love more than autumn. For many subs, October also signals the beginning of 30 days in …

There he is. You’re sitting in the café with a cool drink as he walks in looking to see who and where you might be. Tall, slim older than you …

Want to know one of the hardest things about the pandemic for a perverted social butterfly like myself? It hasn’t been the masks, or missing out on restaurant dining. It …

Punishment is an art, to me. Each one is unique, to the sub I assign it to and to their transgression. I’ve had the occasional individual try to purposely offend …